tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post152774845667839603..comments2023-08-22T03:41:29.159-04:00Comments on Confessions of an Aloof Guy: How she rates herself matters more than how you rate herThe Aloof Guyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14179363851251193649noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post-31485563200208150092014-01-28T01:47:56.895-05:002014-01-28T01:47:56.895-05:00I think the thing you have to appreciate about soc...I think the thing you have to appreciate about social norms is that the human brain is ultimately a giant bullshit filter designed to make fucking the right mate easier and fucking the wrong mate harder.<br /><br />Where the crosstalk and noise in the system occurs is when people who are clearly "wrong mates" start jumping in and trying to demand obedience to certain social norms.<br /><br />In an environment where everyone is sexy and has access to money, it's like a bonobo colony. No one complains about who is or is not getting a piece.<br /><br />Sluts are only considered bad in a world where not everyone has access. And the reason sluts are bad is that sluts are trying to jump line and steal better seed.<br /><br />For example, this is why nobody in poor countries likes women that fuck foreign travelers. Being a Maria Passaporte is a bad, bad thing because the little bitch is trying to jump line and gain accesss to wealthier, whiter, foreign cock.The Aloof Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14179363851251193649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post-57902707707227430162014-01-27T07:16:05.828-05:002014-01-27T07:16:05.828-05:00"This is why women complain so vociferously a..."This is why women complain so vociferously about men who fuck skanks. As a guy, if women are complaining that you fuck skanks, what they really mean is "you could do better, so goddammit, engage in a ridiculous protracted pursuit of me instead of any easy pursuit of her". Sluts are viewed as free-riders. And tribes destroy free-riders without mercy."<br /><br />Another 'Eureka!' moment for me. Always understood the reality that sluts prevent the pussy cartel from operating to maximum effectiveness. <br /><br />But now I have also connected it to these trite maxims you often see: those nauseating relationship memes - "if she's easy, she's not worth it; if she's worth it, she's won't be easy", or the rationalisations women employ for expecting men to approach and/or knocking him back initially, "I want to know he's really interested in me" (when we could justifiably say the exact same thing about them). Love putting the pieces of social dynamics together with the help of the red pill.<br /><br />It also explains the shaming employed on men - the cartel can't operate unless men are coerced by 'social norms' and shaming language to do so. As Heartiste would say, it's great seeing the pretty lies perish. The more I decide to view human relations on the basis of brutal economics and commerce, replacing the existing moral and social tapestry bullshit we are all fed, the more that comes to light.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post-83310968544788453892014-01-27T07:11:53.684-05:002014-01-27T07:11:53.684-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post-61480182441130540912013-05-18T11:44:14.508-04:002013-05-18T11:44:14.508-04:00A better way to put that may be that different isn...A better way to put that may be that different isn't always better.The Aloof Guyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14179363851251193649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1004049351831453726.post-84844751157204487392013-05-11T13:32:15.940-04:002013-05-11T13:32:15.940-04:00I have seen your post(s) on Game and what you prai...I have seen your post(s) on Game and what you praise as well as criticize of that. In particular I refer to the post where you mention the misogyny of the PUA community. But how is that different from yours, I don't understand. With your misoginy, in a way you seem to be doing something similar to what women do with the "Those Other Bitches" problem. You think you are different, you don't seem that much different in the end.Indianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12658725382706616609noreply@blogger.com