Thursday, May 30, 2013

Do girls hate aloof guys?

OK, I'm trolling the search queries again.  This gem is "do girls hate aloof guys".  Fair enough question.

The problem with this question is what precisely do you mean by "hate"?  Lots of women say they hate aloof men.  But, I promise you that, based on a quick study of the inbound searches to this website, there are a lot of chicks trying to unlock the aloof male.  Sure, they will say they hate it.  But, they mean they hate it in the way that guys say they hate lingerie.  They hate that its a frustrating buffer between what they desire and what they're getting at this exact moment.

Women do not dislike aloof men.  I say that from lots of experience.  Women get dialed in on an aloof guy.  And, yes, they hate how that makes them feel.  It's frustrating.  But, don't confuse that with actively seeking to disengage from aloof men.  Because, in fact, it's quite the opposite.  Women parade themselves around doing everything in their power to flag down an aloof man and get his attention.

That's a big difference.

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