Something I keep trying to emphasize, because I see it over and over in the search queries, is that this blog is not about some mystical PUA tactic called "aloof". It isn't, because "aloof" is a terrible idea if your goal is to game women. Just terrible.
This blog is just me sorting out some issues. And, yes, I am aware of PUA, Game, and all the cetera alongside all that stuff. It's not a focus. But, it does inform my worldview.
On balance, I would consider myself fairly Game-less. Most attractive guys in fact are. And most aloof, attractive guys are worse than that: they're bored and they get off jerking women around.
I'm a weird guy. And I get away with a lot of shit because a large enough segment of adult women want to fuck me that I can go out any night and get laid if that's my goal.
Truth be told, even non-adult women hit on me. Last week I was standing in line at the butcher's shop. There was a woman standing there with her two teenage daughters. The oldest one looked maybe 17, had kind of a hot volleyball chick thing going on with a dash of corn-fed blond girl. She was going all-in on the over-the-shoulder lookies at me and horny hair pulls while giggling with her sister and giving the "you know" look to her. On a level, it was disgusting. But, there was also a narcissistic side of me that quite enjoyed the attention, even if the attention arose from a clever plan that would have put me in jail if I saw it through to completion.
(For those playing the home game, I'm 34. So, yeah, I'm rocking it out pretty hard these days. I've spent six months killing the workout regimen. And now I get creepy advances from 17 year olds.)
My point . . .? My point is that you don't want to treat anything I tell you here as a guide on how to game women. I'm that odd breed of aloof, attractive, distant, cocky, mean, off-putting . . . all that shit women say they hate, but secretly love.
The distinction between you and I, dear reader, is that I can get away with that shit for months on end and still have a woman pining for me. For most guys, that shit isn't gonna fly. If women don't already come pre-activated for you, aloof is a dangerously stupid approach to gaming them. Evasive is great if you're not invisible to women. It's an absolute disaster if they're not already looking.
Remember: aloof guys can teach you some basic facts about women. But, at some point you have to factor in that we're just damage attractive guys. Don't read too much into our fucked-up approach and for the love of gawd don't parrot our behavior.